Below is a list of my favorite resources. Check back often as I add more to my collection.
Intimately Us, lots of free content but I’m glad I paid for all of their content. Educational, discussion topics, sex games, date ideas and more.
Ultimate Intimacy. Designed by Christians with lots of Christian friendly sex positions, games, intimacy builders and more. It's about $16 and worth it.
Gottman Card Decks. Great conversation starters and discussion topics.
https://khsministry.com (Knowing Her Sexually: a blog specifically for men)
Sexy Marriage Radio (subscribe to the Extended version for $19 / month for more valuable content and be a part of the private SMR community on Slack)
Sexual Confidence on Tap, Shannon Ethridge
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Live from Love, Amanda Louder
The Bare Marriage, Sheila Gregoire
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Java with Juli
Knowing Her Sexually, J. Parker & Chris Taylor. Specifically for men.
The Sexually Confident Wife, Shannon Ethridge
Restoring the Pleasure: Complete step-by-step programs to help couples overcome the most common sexual barriers, Clifford L. Penner, PhD, Joyce J. Penner, RN, MN
Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women, Joyce J. Penner & Clifford L. Penner
The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the deeper meaning behind sexual thoughts, Shannon Ethridge
Hot, Holy & Humorous, J. Parker
Pillow Talk, J. Parker
The Little Book of Great Sex, A Woman’s Guide to Pleasure, Sharon Williams
Becoming Cliterate, Laurie Mintz. My favorite. I highly recommend this one, but the language is "colorful", “secular”.
Come as You Are, Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
She Comes First, Ian Kerner. This is written by a man and aimed at husbands, but it is one of the best books I've read for understanding female sexual response and other things besides penetration that please women.
A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex, Laurie B. Mintz, Ph.D.
CHRISTIAN TOYS & MORE STORES
PRODUCT RECOMMENDATIONS: most can be found at the above online stores and Amazon
Liberator cushions – helpful to achieve different positions or just make sexual positions more comfortable.
Satisfyer Pro 2, about $50, works as well as the Womanizer but is cheaper. Clitoral stimulator.
Womanizer, clitoral stimulator.
We Vibe Touch
Je Joue Uma
Je Joue Mimi Soft
A bed covering that protects your sheets and is easy to wash. It's not cheap but just get it! You won't regret it. A game changer for us. You can feel totally uninhibited without worrying about mess, the wet spot, and clean up.
Melt Massage, Very tasteful instructional couples massage videos for purchase