Below is a list of my favorite resources. Check back often as I add more to my collection. 



Intimately Us, lots of free content but I’m glad I paid for all of their content. Educational, discussion topics, sex games, date ideas and more.


Ultimate Intimacy. Designed by Christians with lots of Christian friendly sex positions, games, intimacy builders and more. It's about $16 and worth it.


Gottman Card Decks. Great conversation starters and discussion topics.



BLOGS (Knowing Her Sexually: a blog specifically for men)




Sexy Marriage Radio (subscribe to the Extended version for $19 / month for more valuable content and be a part of the private SMR community on Slack)

Sexual Confidence on Tap, Shannon Ethridge

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Live from Love, Amanda Louder

The Bare Marriage, Sheila Gregoire

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Java with Juli

Knowing Her Sexually, J. Parker & Chris Taylor. Specifically for men.



BOOKS: Christian

The Sexually Confident Wife, Shannon Ethridge


Restoring the Pleasure: Complete step-by-step programs to help couples overcome the most common sexual barriers, Clifford L. Penner, PhD, Joyce J. Penner, RN, MN


Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women, Joyce J. Penner & Clifford L. Penner


The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the deeper meaning behind sexual thoughts, Shannon Ethridge


Hot, Holy & Humorous, J. Parker

Pillow Talk, J. Parker

The Little Book of Great Sex, A Woman’s Guide to Pleasure, Sharon Williams



BOOKS: Non-Christian


Becoming Cliterate, Laurie Mintz. My favorite. I highly recommend this one, but the language is "colorful", “secular”. 


Come as You Are, Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.


She Comes First, Ian Kerner. This is written by a man and aimed at husbands, but it is one of the best books I've read for understanding female sexual response and other things besides penetration that please women.


A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex, Laurie B. Mintz, Ph.D.






PRODUCT RECOMMENDATIONS: most can be found at the above online stores and Amazon


Liberator cushions – helpful to achieve different positions or just make sexual positions more comfortable.

Satisfyer Pro 2, about $50, works as well as the Womanizer but is cheaper. Clitoral stimulator.

Womanizer, clitoral stimulator.

We Vibe Touch

Je Joue Uma

Je Joue Mimi Soft

Iroha Plus


A bed covering that protects your sheets and is easy to wash. It's not cheap but just get it! You won't regret it. A game changer for us. You can feel totally uninhibited without worrying about mess, the wet spot, and clean up.


Melt Massage, Very tasteful instructional couples massage videos for purchase